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Aspergers Disorder is a lifelong condition that is usually not diagnosed until a child attends school. Usually the child does not exhibit a cognitive delay of any kind and can actually have above normal intelligence. This is the primary reason that a child remains undiagnosed until he or she attends school and is expected to socialize. Social inadequacy characterizes this disorder, as opposed to mental retardation, which is present in other kinds of autism.

Aspergers Disorder

The following criteria are utilized in order to make the diagnosis of Asperger’s Disorder, per the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders Fourth Edition Text Revision (American Psychiatric Association, 2000):

Social Interaction Impairment (A minimum of two):

1. Inability to understand non-verbal cues, such as facial expressions, or maintaining eye contact.
2. Difficulty in establishing social relationships with others of the same age.
3. Lack of ability to enjoy interests that others of the same age enjoy.
4. Lack of ability to demonstrate social or emotional reciprocity.

Repetition (A minimum of one):

1. An intense involvement with one or more interests, the focus or concentration of which is not normal.
2. Is inflexible when it comes to routines.
3. Repetitive motor movements, such as hand or finger flapping and hand wringing.
4. Continual involvement with certain items.

Social, academic, or occupational dysfunction can occur as a result of this disorder. Language and cognitive abilities are not delayed, and self help skills develop normally.

Child Disintegrative Disorder

Info about Aspergers Disorder in Children

Severe mental retardation is present with this kind of autism, and up to age of two, the child develops normally. The child exhibits age-appropriate development in such areas as verbal communication, non-verbal communication, social relationships, play, and adaptive behavior (American Psychiatric Association, 2000).

Prior to the age of 10, the child will exhibit a loss of these developed areas in a minimum of two of the following areas:

1. Language that is meaningful or friendly
2. Social Skills
3. Toilet control (bladder and bowels)
4. Play
5. Motor Skills

In addition, the child will exhibit impairment in a minimum of two of the following areas:

1. Social Interactions (for example with nonverbal behaviors)
2. Communication (for example with spoken language)
3. Repetitive behavior (interests and motor gestures that are limited in scope)

This kind of autism is less prevalent than Classical Autistic Disorder and is noted more frequently in males (American Psychiatric Association, 2000).

All infomation for this article gathered By Tessa Bishop Invercargill New Zealand

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What should I do if the parents are drunk when they get home and they are supposed to drive me home?

Do not get into a vehicle with them. Speak with your parents in advance so that if that situation arises, you can call them. You can tell the parents that one of your patents called while they were out and said that they would come and get you. If they ask the reason for that, you can always say that you and your family are going somewhere afterward, such as out to eat or to visit a relative. Advise them that you will phone your parent when you are ready to be picked up. If for any reason your parents will not be available that night, check with a family friend or neighbor to see if you can call them in that situation.

How do I know how much to charge to babysit?

Several factors affect the answer to that question. The area in which you reside is a major factor. Pay could be from $15 to $19 per hour if you live in a ritzy area. For those who reside in a middle class neighborhood, $10 to $15 dollars an hour should cover it.

How many children you are babysitting should be considered.

Babysitting on nights like New Years Eve can be most lucrative. Years ago for the year 2000 New Years Eve, I babysat 5 children from 5 families, and was paid and was paid $150 per family.

Are you babysitting for 2 or more families?

Are you babysitting at your home or theirs?

Whose paying to get you home, or does the job involve you staying over and feeding children the next morning?

Your age is also something that has a bearing on how much you charge. Now that I am 18, I get paid more than I did when I was 13.

My best advice is check with your friends to find out what they charge per hour. This will give you a better feel for how much to charge.

Especially if the children were less than perfect, it can be a tricky question to be asked “How were the kids?” Do you let the children get away with whatever they did, or do you tell the parents that their children were brats? Or should every little detail be told so the children get upset, the parents get upset and you look like a tattle tale? It isn’t easy telling the parents their children were acting up, especially when the parents believe their children can do no wrong. The children’s behavior should come up in certain situations and here’s an explanation of when.

If household items are broken. The parents need to be told if the children broke anything other than a pencil or something insignificant. If the blame isn’t placed where it belongs, the wrong child might be blamed. Since the parents don’t know, they might all be punished for it. If the details aren’t explained, they may decide you are the irresponsible one.

Injuring a sibling. If a sibling is hurt while you’re watching the children, you might be blamed. You should report several types of situations to the family, especially when a child hurts another child and it leaves a mark of any kind. If one child is hurt, leaving a mark on the body, the situation needs to be explained to the parents and blame placed on the child that did it, and there are several reasons for this. This should be stopped right away.

That is probably against all rules in their house and the child should be stopped from doing it. The child should not be doing that, and the parents to be aware if their actions show different. The mark could be blamed on you if you don’t tell on the child. All sorts of hassles could result because of this. If you haven’t explained to the parents what happened and who did it, they might blame you because child abuse is illegal. Remember that even if you don’t blame the children, they might blame you the next day. They might not be surprised their child did that, and most parents will be understanding. Most often the child is the one blamed for doing it.

That risk is a high one to take, so don’t go that approach. The parent should be told about it, so talk over what happened. What you were doing when that happened is something they will most likely ask. Explain it to them and ask how you should handle it if it happens again. You are likely to get called back if you show you are trying to help solve the problem.

Doing Dangerous Things. If anything dangerous is done by the child, the parents definitely needs to know. The parents should be aware of it, and you need to tell them if the child was playing with matches (especially older ones that should know better) or was doing anything that they might do again. The best way to handle it is to explain that the behavior worries you, that the child may be hurt, and ask that the rules be explained to you.

Tell the parents if you already knew the rule and the child deliberately disobeyed it more than once or twice. Rather than have the child get hurt seriously while you are in charge, it’s better to have the parents or the children a little irritated.

It generally isn’t your fault when the child misbehaves if you were doing everything you were supposed to, so remember this when things go bad. At times you might feel like it was your fault because of how the parents react. Telling parents is something they might appreciate right away. But some parents won’t mind at all. Don’t take things too personally regardless of how they turn out. Rather than having anything seriously go wrong the next time you sit for a family, it is better to have told them right away.

5 or 6 month old Babies are fun to babysit, by this age they are usually past the colic stag, and haven’t yet started teething, so they are usually happy, and like nothing more than being your constant point of attention.

Five Month Old Baby

By the time a baby is five months old, most likely it will be able to lift its head and shoulders when they push with their arms. They enjoy lying on a blanket on the floor, also enjoying giving and getting attention. To get attention, a five-month-old is more likely to make noise and wriggle rather than crying.

Six Month Old Baby

Babies who are 6 months old enjoy playing peek-a-boo. Normally they will play it again and again, enjoying it immensely. This is an excellent way of entertaining a baby or to stop it from crying. Some of them are able to sort toys by size, and they enjoy looking at their own reflections in a mirror. If they see your reflection in the mirror, they will probably turn to look at you, because they think that you are in the mirror itself. Some other things they can do include transferring a toy from one hand to the other, drinking from a cup with handles with help, banging objects together, clasping their hands, and using only one hand to grab for a toy.